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When something is right, it doesn’t need convincing. The energy feels different. You feel different. The connection fits not because it’s perfect, but because it allows you to be wholly yourself. If you’re trying to figure out whether someone or something) is actually right for you, here are the telltale signs it’s meant to be!
1. You Don’t Feel The Need To Perform Around Them
2. You’re Calm, Not Anxious, When You Think About The Future
3. You Don’t Fantasize About Them Changing
4. You’re Not Explaining Away Red Flags To Your Friends
5. You Don’t Second-Guess Them Constantly
6. You’re Not Exhausted After Spending Time With Them
7. You Can Disagree Without It Turning Into A Full-Blown War
8. You Don’t Feel Like You’re Shrinking To Make Them Happy
9. You’re Not Ashamed To Show Them The Messy Parts
10. You Don’t Feel The Urge To Post Your Relationship To Prove It’s Real
Overall it’s safe to assume that if they do those things they truly do have a connection with you so make sure you have this list handy on your next date!