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A major part of growing up is developing an overall sense of 'likebility' because, lets face it, a lot more gets done when you leave a good impression on the person you're talking to. As we get older though, what was considered nice at one point doesn't always apply, so we've decided to compile the ultimate list of the 5 best things you can do to become likeable in as little as two minutes!
1. Open both your body and your attitude
- Body language speaks volumes and can affect the length and quality of personal interactions. Leading with "open" body language can help you meet new people and make a great first impression. Open body language exposes the heart, so having a positive approach and leading with your heart is crucial. Don't cover your heart with your hands or arms; instead, aim it directly at the person you're meeting.
2. Initiate eye contact
- initiating eye contact just enough (not so much that you make the other person feel uncomfortable, of course) is a valuable skill to have. And it can make people feel more welcome and interested in talking to you.
3. Be the first to smile
- Being the first one to smile sends the message that you're sincere. Smiling first makes you appear confident as well.
4. Start with a simple 'hello.'
- After saying hello, shake their hand and say their name. Names are a huge part of our identity and it feels great when people use them. Plus, saying someone's name makes it more likely you'll remember it.
5. Lean in
- Leaning in when someone is talking shows that you're interested in what they're saying. On the other hand, when you're leaning back, it indicates that you're only partially listening. To make people like you, that doesn't mean you have to tilt forward so much that you lose your balance and fall over. However, lean in enough to convey interest in what the other person is saying and what they're all about.