A TikToker named Lisa responded to a post from a bridesmaid who commented that she didn’t realize being one would cost three paychecks and more
Lisa shared the “transparency letter” she gave her bridesmaids, detailing what she expected of them
She let them know if they lived far away they didn’t have to come to pre-wedding events, they only had to pay for their dress, and she was perfectly okay with them saying no to being a bridesmaid and they’d still be friends
While some still questioned making bridesmaids pay for the dress, many praised it as a “mature” way to handle things"